Beyond “It’s Okay”: How Great Teammates Step Up After Mistakes

I came across a really powerful Instagram post from @dr3fastpitch and didn’t want it to get lost in the scroll—so I’m sharing it here as a blog. It’s worth taking a moment to read and showing your daughter.

When a teammate makes an error, I often ask pitchers, “What should you do as a pitcher in that moment?” Most of the time, they’ll say something like, “I’ll tell the first basemen that it’s okay, you’ll get it next time.” That’s supportive—but there’s an even more powerful response I learned as a college pitcher.

My coach taught me to respond with, “Don’t worry, I’ve got you. I’ll strike the next girl out for you.” And then go out and do it.

That mindset didn’t just help me stay focused—it made my teammates feel trusted and ready to bounce back. It showed them we were in it together, and that one mistake wouldn’t define the inning—or the game.

What this coach shared online takes that idea to the next level. When a teammate who makes a mistake shows that she still believes in the team’s ability to win, that’s powerful. It makes everyone feel more confident and resilient. She doesn’t feel sorry for herself—or for anyone else. She owns it, moves on, and lifts up the team with her mindset.

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Here’s what Coach Daniell Rubin @dr3fastpitch had to say:

“She just gave up a home run. Her team is now down by three. The crowd is roaring. The pressure is immense.

But watch her body language. She stays calm, composed, and collected. She owns the moment, turns to her teammates, and says, “My bad. I’ve got your back. Let’s get out of this.”

That’s the kind of leader every team needs in the circle. Someone who doesn’t crumble under pressure but instead rallies the team forward.

This is the Women’s College World Series — the pinnacle of college softball — and she’s demonstrating poise beyond her years.

To all the young pitchers out there: take note. When adversity strikes, take a deep breath and focus on the next pitch. You can’t change the past, but you can control your response.

Even the best have moments where they’re hit hard. What sets them apart is their resilience and determination to fight back.

This is the mindset I instill in every pitcher I coach. Because to reach this stage, it’s not just about physical skill — it’s about mental strength.

Lyndsey Grein, #33 for Oregon Softball, embodies this perfectly. Her composure and leadership are truly inspiring. 

Let’s all strive to lead like her. @lynz.grein 🫶🏽”